The Consultation Meeting for the "YOUNG PEOPLE SPEAK OUT" ProjectDecember 21st 2006
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| FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION (FGM) | CHILD MARRIAGE (CM) |
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| FGM is practiced in parts of Africa irrespective of culture or religion | CM takes place because some men want to marry virgins |
| Religion is used as an excuse to practice FGM | CM may be attractive to parents in the West because they believe Western culture is too liberal |
| FGM is wrong, disgusting and prevents sexual pleasure for women | CM is often practiced when parents are poor and have limited options |
| FGM is encouraged by older generations who are reluctant to stop the practice as it is believed to ensure a good marriage | CM is practiced when it is seen as a way to ensure a better life for girls. Yet it prevents girls from attaining many things e.g. educations |
| FGM is used to ensure chastity and perpetuates inequality | CM is not only practiced by Muslims |
| FGM is preferred by men in some cultures, but not all, and sustained by women due to social pressure | CM was a common practice in Europe in the past |
| FGM can be eradicated through education resulting in attitude and behaviour change | CM can be eradicated through education resulting in attitude and behaviour change |
| FGM should be challenged by youth | CM should be challenged by youth |
Adwoa informed the youth of the following points:
| FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION (FGM) | CHILD MARRIAGE (CM) |
|---|---|
| FGM is performed to ensure chastity and virginity and is different to male circumcision | CM is defined as any marriage performed on a child under the age of 18 years. It is illegal and against the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child which every country has signed except Somalia and U.S. |
| FGM is differs according to where it is practiced e.g. West Africa the clitoris is removed (type 1 & 2) and in parts of East Africa the whole external genitalia is removed and vulva is stitched (type 3) | CM is practiced because some countries believe it is sanctioned by religion |
| FGM affects women throughout their lives, during menstruation, urination, intercourse, childbirth and after childbirth when a women may be re-circumcised | CM is practiced in order to protect girls from rape and pregnancy and is seen as a way to increase the family income and bride price |
| FGM does not prevent sexual pleasure because it is not located in the genitalia but in the mind. However, the sole purpose of the clitoris is for pleasure. | CM also affects young boys but it mainly affects young girls with negative effect on their health, life chances and education, unequal power balance within marriage which may lead to domestic violence and marital rape, problems in pregnancy and child birth due to girls' physical underdevelopment resulting in fistulas |
| FGM affects over 140 million women worldwide (WHO report). | CM was performed in the past because life span was much shorter e.g. at 15 a girl would be halfway through her life. |
| | CM has many negative outcomes and therefore FORWARD campaigns against marriage of anyone under the age of 18 years |
Margaret Sesay, an African activist, also raised the point that as Africans we should respect our traditions and understand that they had a purpose. Parents believed FGM and CM were the best thing they could offer their daughters to ensure that she had a good marriage. However, times have changed and traditions should be retained but the negative and dangerous aspect of our cultures replacing them with livelihood skills to teach assertiveness, self-awareness, self-confidence, decision-making, negotiating, and communication, problem-solving and refusal skill. Life-skills will empower youth to become proactive peer educators and advocates for prevention of the FGM and CM.
After the discussion, two videos were shown on FGM and CM, and heated discussions followed. These were the general views of the participants:
| FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION (FGM) | CHILD MARRIAGE (CM) |
|---|---|
| Girls are taught to be submissive and listen to their elders unquestioningly | There should be greater awareness on the issue of CM and knowledge about Gender Based Violence (GBV) |
| Women and girls are pressurised by society to have FGM performed on them | Women and girls should be empowered through education and training to protect themselves and others from GBV |
| FGM is sustained by the community as women and girls want to conform to their society | Men and boys should be educated about dangers of GBV and problems associated with CM such as Fistulas |
| | Everyone can be involved in highlighting the dangers of CM, not just celebrities |
Participants were divided into two groups, giving them the opportunity to discuss various ways and means to maximise their participation in various activities in the campaign against GBV.
| | GROUP A | GROUP B |
|---|---|---|
| Internet | use of chat rooms to discuss issues on FGM & CM | use pf chat rooms to discuss and raise awareness on issues of FGM & CM |
| Media | use of radio, newspapers, magazines to bring issues to community and national interest | use of radio stations e.g. Choice FM and other community radio stations |
| Performance | use of drama, plays, poems, CDs and DVDs to highlight issues | |
| Advertising | | Speakers' Corner (Hyde Park), flyers, posters, wristbands (e.g. black b/ground with red footprints -"Moving Forward Against FGM") |
| Logos | use of wristbands (e.g. black b/ground with red footprints -"Moving Forward Against FGM), t-shirts sold to raise funds for campaign | |
| Schools & Colleges | | talking to young people about GBV including FGM and CM |
| Education | to teach youth about GBV sex education and reproductive health and livelihood skills | |
| Youth Advocates | | speaking out about FGM and CM within communities, at local, national and international levels |
| Peer Education | to pass on knowledge to peers within community so that they too can join the campaign and spread awareness of the issues throughout he wider community | engaging with youth about issues of FGM and CM to recruit more members and participate with adults in the community a youth-led campaign to end GBV |
| Project Length | 10 weeks training - youth to meet every other Saturday (11-3m). Venue to be confirmed. | |
5. Youth evaluation of the Meeting25 participants (male and female) attended and took part in the meeting and 15 of them completed the evaluation form.
(Results are in percentage terms)
